Monday morning, as I sat down to enjoy a cup of coffee, I clicked on the T.V. and happened upon 'The View'. I love this show, because it's four women, on national television, sharing their views about relevant topics. As I listened to their discussion on the current political race happening, the subject suddenly switched to celebrities and their privacy. I've had this discussion with some of my girlfriends many a time before, but to listen to the ladies (who are, themselves, celebrities) argue the point, I feel like it all is very, very simple.
If you made the choice to become a star, whether it be an actor/actress, or singer or comedian, whatever. If you chose to put yourself in the spot-light, don't expect to be a normal person. It's a very obvious concept. When you want the attention of the public, want them to pay to see you in your forte, don't expect them to leave you alone when the movie/song ends. You've made yourself known, you've acquired fans, therefore, you get no privacy. If you wish to be out of the newspapers, and avoid controversies, you can. You may not have the private life that normal citizens lead, but you can have some extent of privacy. Take, for example, Alishia Keyes. How many times have you seen her in the tabloids for some scandalous thing? Never. I can't recall a time when Alishia was published about in a degrading way. This is because she actively lives her life the way she wants people to perceive her. I remember my sister reading an article where Alishia agreed to an interview. She told some amazing things, some bad, some good, but things that the public had NO clue about...until she decided to tell them. So, how is it that Alishia Keyes and other celebrities shy away from the spotlight and have their 'privacy,' while others, like Brad Pitt and Angelona are constantly in the center of it? The obvious answer, of course, is they want it that way. It's been proven by many celebrities that you can have a relatively normal life, yet some seem to never quite reach that part of their stardom.
Anyway, to conclude my little rant, I'm simply saying that it really is annoying to hear most of these celebrities complaining about their 'lack of privacy.' Honestly, if you look at it, they are a public servant. They serve in the entertainment business and their goal should be to accomodate the people that pay them. The people that got them to where they are today. I think a lot of celebrities lose sight of that.
Well, yesterday I started my new job here at TTC. As excited (and nervous) as I was, it seems that this is all pretty easy. Granted, it's only my second day, and I haven't really ran into many situations, I feel like I can handle it. The more I think about where I'm currently at, the more I have to give thanks to God for always providing me astound oppurtunities like this. Also, I give him gratitude for allowing me to find my way to Justin, my amazing fiance. He was the one who pushed me to attend Tech Center and just give it a chance, its amazing that he seems to always know what is right for me.
What's your definition of home?
Submitted by NayNay72
As typical as it sounds, home is most definately where the heart is. To say that home is where you lay your head at night is a complete lie in my book. Where you lay your head at night is your house. And a house and a home are two completely different things. My home is where ever my fiance is. I am committed to him, and while my religious beliefs prevent me from spending the nights with him (until we are married), he is my home. He is the last thing I think about each night, and the first one I want to talk to in the mornings. In his arms, that is my home. There I feel relaxed and at peace. I feel accepted and cherished and most of all, loved. That is what a home is suppose to be. Some place where you are free to be yourself. Despite your weight, height, religious backgrounds, political thoughts, hair color, skin color, music preferences, anything. You are just accepted and no one expects you to be anything more than what you are. It is a place that, even when you fall flat on your face, the people there will pick you up and laugh with you about it later.
So, as much as I'd like to say I'm a completely mature and responsible seventeen year old, I must keep in mind that I am, in fact, only seventeen. As much as I try to stay away from the drama, as much as I try to isolate myself from societies pressures...it simply finds me wherever I may be hiding. In order to avoid drama, I would have to avoid my friends. Avoiding my friends leads to them starting drama because I'm being "antisocial". It really is all just a vicious circle...isn't it?
So here lies my hope...college! Ahh! A refreshing breath of drama free air. They will all graduate and realized, "Wow, we have to start acting like adults now." Oh how wrong I turned out to be. It seems that this "graduating" step they have all taken is only a bigger door with which drama enters more freely. Now, we have no rules, so we can lash out and say/do whatever we want without parental consequences. Why do I feel like that's the wrong choice?
Now, I'm not saying I'm above all of this...I mean, come on, I've had my moments (and haven't we all?) but usually after my moments I feel like an idiot and face the consequences of my actions or at least apologize and try to make amends. I try to do what I think a responsible adult would do. Turn the other cheek, try to explain your side of the situation calmly, have an actual conversation about what's going on. Then I turn to look at my friend, and all she can do is complain about what's happening to her. Now, I'll admit that all the crap she's been put through, she doesn't deserve...but, sometimes bad stuff happens to good people. It's a fact of life and griping about it doesn't change it at all.
I wish, instead of moping about and saying "I wish I was this, or I wish I had that," focus on what you do have. Yes, maybe she needs to change some stuff, but everyone needs to change something, no one is perfect! And don't drop to "the other girl's" level. I mean...revenge? Honestly? How old are we here?! I don't understand! Every time she retaliates, something comes back to hit her, or she feels bad ten seconds after she does it and breaks down. Just, this whole entire situation is bad, for her, for me, for everyone involved. If she would just realize this and drop it all and decide that she is done with it.
I don't really think she will ever get closure for this relationship or the current situation she finds herself in. It's too far gone and the right choice too far past. Everyone involved has made stupid decisions and harsh remarks, but enough is enough. I don't really care who ends whatever it is that is going on right now, just as long as it ends...
I can only hope though, because more often than not....I'm ignored.
What is the quickest false assumption people make about you?
Submitted by JJ.
People usually assume, upon seeing me, that I'm extremely intimidating. Apparently, I give off the impression that if I have a probelm with you, I'll probably come kick your ass. This isn't the case at all! I remember the first time someone had the balls to tell me this and all I could do was laugh. I am extremely bold, I'll admit, but I am also accepting of others views and thoughts. I hold myself confidently and am not afraid to speak up if I have a problem with someone or something, but I'm not rude or bossy about it. Once people get to know me, they see what a geniunely nice, sincere person I am. I speak my mind, but its part of my personality. I may have my moments, but show me a girl who hasn't...
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What happened to my old life? Everything is so different from then to now. It's more than a 360 turn-around. It's like my fucking world got flipped upside down, shaken like a snow-globe and then slammed back onto the table! And here I am left to find a piece of solid ground to put my two feet on.
It's all so crazy.
And I don't know how to make it stop...
What's making you smile today?
This is really strange the I happen to see this question on today, of all days. This morning started out pretty rotten and I was sure that I was going to be in for a very painful week. Of course when those you love always to seem to be yelling at eachother, a girl tends to get a little down in the dumps. For that reason, I am so thankful for two things. The same two things that make me smile, not only today, but every single day.
First off, (and most important) is my savior, Jesus Christ. Every time I get down in the dumps, He always provides things to lift my spirits or just make me smile in general. Its during these times that I realize just how much I take Him and all that he's given me for granted.
The second thing that made me smile today (and everyday) is my extremely amazing boyfriend, Justin. He's able to sense in a single moment when I'm upset or whatever mood I'm in. I love him dearly and he's always there for me. When he realized I was sad today, he ran out and bought me Red Bull and gave me a million hugs and kisses.
He is what's making me smile today.
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